“Every time, I look at a zebra, I can’t figure out whether it’s black with white stripes or white with black stripes, and that frustrates me.” – Jodi Picoult
There will always be 2 sides of explanation or even more for every situation. Like zebra, there is no right answer. It may be right to one, this doesn’t mean it apply to all. Please look in other shoes, and think of them. It may be frustrated but not every individual is the same. We are all unique.